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Distract me from work and help find my center

Overworked business owner wanting distraction with a lovely woman. Interested in just hanging out FWB/NSA. Any beginner sub out there looking for a dom I would be very interested and would love to see how we mesh.

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Affair Preferences

Describe your favorite affair fantasyWithout trying to justify anything, the fantasy being that either my wife recognized and or reciprocated the thought and attention I feel I had given her.
Does your partner know?No
How often does your spouse leave you alone?Pretty much been on an island these past 4 years.

Tickling Preferences

Favorite tickling objectHands, Feather
Describe a tickling fantasy you haveHelping a sub have a breakthrough using the pleasure/pain of tickling and spanking/pinching.Between the two extremes and playing them off each other I will guide the sub home.
Where's your favorite Tickling-Spot?Under the arms, Feet, Waist, Genitals

Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:Whereever the risk of getting caught is strongest. Mall changing rooms, beaches, any public place, with the intent of not getting caught in said public place.
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:Riskiest was actually at church as a young 16 year old. In the church baptismal. Got busted by the minister of music.

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildAverage
Height178 cm
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorAuburn / red
Hair LengthShoulder length
Facial HairShaved
Best featureSmile
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s), Visible tattoo
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusMarried
Has childrenThree or more
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityMy Place
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent
SpecialtySales / Marketing
Employment StatusSelf-employed
Annual income$50,000 - $100,000
Job Titleowner/distributor/marketer

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness, Passiveness
My perfect matchOutside of any kink/fetish, someone that enjoys life, with a wonderful sense of humor. Who isn't afraid to laugh at themselves. Now as far as kink/fetish, I truly try to help everyone. It's not a toot horn thing it's just how I am wired. I give and give and give of myself till I just feel used up. Which is where I have gotten. My dad invested into a "family" business some 4 years ago on suggestions of a brother in law. I was brought in at the final stages, and was decided that both families would shoulder the burden of operations. Within 3 months the brother in law was gone and I was left to both protect my fathers retirement and to improve quality of life for my family.

Slowly over these 4 years I have built a business I am proud of and that to this point has started becoming successful. At the expense of everything. I do not multitask well....at all. Once I focus in on you, everything else is a distraction. 7 days a week I work and "give" of myself so that the rest of the family doesn't have to shoulder it. I am tired, used up and desire a sub so I can find my center. Control is a tangible thing then. In that way the sub may be more meaningful to me then I to her.
Our first dateTesting and discussing limits if it's revolving fetish. Otherwise, just a relaxing and peaceful night curled up with someone nonjudgemental, that just wants companionship.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isMaster
I am seekingA sub
I live the lifestyleEvery once in a while
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Chastity devices, Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Cupping, Depilation / shaving, Food play, Hair pulling, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Suspension, Tickling games, Voyeurism, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasThe people I have met. To the outside world probablly vastly misrepresented, they are the most caring and deep people I have met, not to mention brave as they grow.Around it in Nashville but never invested into a community like I want to here.

Fetishes

FetishesArmpits, Exhibitionism, Feathers, High Heels, Lace / Lingerie, Panty, Shoes / Boots, Tickling, Tongue Fetish, Voyeurism

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A few times a month
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Group sex with swapping
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Intimate gatherings in my home

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isIt's OK, but I prefer penetration
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:Anal beads, Ben Wa balls, Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Fruits/veggies, Office supplies, Pocket pussy, Vibrating eggs/bullets, Vibrating panties, All of the above and more!
Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":Testing and discussing limits if it's revolving fetish. Otherwise, just a relaxing and peaceful night curled up with someone nonjudgemental, that just wants companionship.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyJust to be surrounded and enveloped by caring people to be lovingly ravaged that I don't need to think, can't possibly think, and for just awhile, ride that peaceful ocean of bliss, before this storm called life is raging again.
Fantasy locationAirplane, Train, Moving car, At a park, Dark alley, Bleachers of a stadium, Kitchen, Elevator, Hotel/motel, Swimming pool, Hot tub, Movie theatre, Parents house, Dressing room, On the beach, My office, In a church, Library, In a taxi cab, Restaurant
Fantasy sex partner:...myself. Or yin to my yang. I have always considered myself a giving lover. Enjoying getting my partner off and putting them first. Over time that has begun to sour. As it feels expected of me as opposed to the gift I deem acceptable to give. Which is what it is. Are you with this gift?

Spanking Preferences

Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Turns me on:I'm always in the mood, Being sent to a room to wait, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement
I like to wear:I posess a few articles as of yet I haven't found the right partner to explore this with.
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway
Implement:Hand, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Belt, Other
Response:Compliance or Humble Silence
Pain level:Light Marks

Foot Fetish Preferences

My fetish role:Teaching
My interests:Tickling, Narrow feet, Foot massage, Foot jewelry
Other activites:The feet is where alot of pain stems from. It is constantly loadbearing and if the slightest part of your stance, walk, posture are out of sync the feet suffer for it. Caring for ones feet is a start of caring for a person. It also represents a sign of
Foot size:Large 9-10
My foot turn ons:Just the structure. The way our feet react to different stimuli. How a kiss on the back of the neck can be felt down in our toes as they curl. How ones feet are cared for, can give you insight on how one cares for themself.
My turnoffs:Foul smell. in the military I unfortunately saw and smelt some rotten feet. Probablly scarred for life because of it. if from reading this you've gotten anything, show your feet some love, they are overworked and underpaid.